When is the right time to get a divorce?
As attorneys we often get asked by our clients when the right time is to get a divorce? It’s a difficult question to answer. We strongly recommend that you get the support and advice to make this decision from a trusted personal advisor, spiritual advisor, family member or friend.
We can help with the “legal” side of the decision – explaining the process to you, explaining the proprietary consequences of the divorce, as well as issues surrounding children and other financial consequences.
What we can say for sure, is that the process is always a “difficult” one, which inevitably gets worse before it gets better. For this reason, you need to ensure that you are resolved, and certain that you wish to take this decision. We will do all we can to ensure the smooth running of your matter and also that we assist with the constructive resolution of the matter. We try not “break things” more than they are already broken. This is not to say that we shy away from a fight, if there is one to be had – on the contrary, we will advise you which fights are worth the fight and we will make sure that your interests are protected in this respect. However, we believe that our jobs as attorneys are to help you keep the end goal in mind – and to help you get there as quickly and painlessly as possible.
If this is how you wish your matter to be handled and you are sure that you want a divorce, give us a call.